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Canadian STI Guidelines

Page 37: Barriers to Condom Use and Means to Overcome These

Perceived Barrier

Intervention Strategy

Decreases sexual pleasure (sensation)
Note: Often perceived by those who have never used a condom.
  • Encourage patient to try.
  • Put a drop of water-based lubricant or saliva inside the tip of the condom or on the glans of the penis prior to putting on the condom.
  • Try a thinner latex condom or different brand or more lubrication.
Decreases spontaneity of sexual activity
  • Encourage incorporation of condom use during foreplay.
  • Remind patient that peace of mind may enhance pleasure for self and partner.
Embarrassing, juvenile, "unmanly"
  • Remind patient that it is "manly" to protect one's self and others.
Poor fit (too small or too big, slips off, uncomfortable)
  • Smaller and larger condoms are available.
Requires prompt withdrawal after ejaculation
  • Reinforce the protective nature of prompt withdrawal and suggest substitution of other post-coital sexual activities.
Fear of breakage may lead to less vigorous
sexual activity
  • With prolonged intercourse, lubricant wears off and the condom begins to rub. Have a water-soluble lubricant available to reapply.
Non-penetrative sexual activity
  • Condoms have been advocated for use during fellatio; unlubricated condoms may prove best for this purpose due to the taste of the lubricant.
  • Other barriers such as dental dams or an unlubricated condom cut down the middle to form a barrier have been advocated for use during certain forms of non-penetrative sexual activity (e.g., cunnilingus and anolingual sex).
  • Polyurethane condoms for women are commercially available in Canada. See page 38.
Allergy to latex
  • A natural skin condom can be used together with a latex condom to protect the male or female from contact with latex.